Lies trust hate

Isabella

Brick created on 27/04/2008 @ 11:43

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I hate it when people I care for lie to me because they don't have the guts to be honest or think I'm so bloody stupid!!! Hate it! It literally catches me in mid air thinking why the hell do I trust anyone?? Once a liar, always a liar it seems. This is for my spouse who has gutted me once again and dismissing it as nothing!! I freaking hate it!!!

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28/04/2008 @ 02:51 UMxx said

Oh Isabella, sorry to find you sad and angry. I don't know if there is much more than I can say than no one deserves to be lied to and no one's feelings should be dismissed.
big hug - UM xx
28/04/2008 @ 13:39 Wolfie said

I am so sorry that you had such a horrendous day yesterday - how are you doing now? Are you still unspeakably angry with your husband? Wx
28/04/2008 @ 14:34 Mebenji said

Hi, Isabella,
Lies like that show so much disrespect for you! I hate it too. Your spouse what's more, that must make it hurt more! And, like icing the cake, minimizes it... oh!
I hope when you can talk to him, when you both can talk, you will work it out. Does he know how much it hurs? And why it hurts?
((hugs)), Isabella.
-Mebenji
29/04/2008 @ 14:32 Isabella said

Hi Everyone, thank you for your messages of support. I don't know what he thinks or feels, because apparantly I'm not worthy of any response. We're talking again and I guess the fight is over, but I truly hate it when he lies to me. It's happened so many times in our married life and although this time it was probably a trivial topic he lied about, it's the lies that get to me. The other times it was really serious stuff and it just resurfaces all those other times that make me wonder what really happened. Thank you. ((()))
29/04/2008 @ 22:19 UMxx said

Anytime Isabella. I wonder whether he knows that leaving stuff unresolved and unsaid pushes your buttons and it is a bit of a power play -(only because of your comment about the stuff that comes up from the past). What ever is the reason, don't give him too much power to make you feel bad because you are a wonderful spirit here on the Wall. xxUM
30/04/2008 @ 07:36 Isabella said

Thank you SO MUCH UM. I don't think you realise how much your words mean, expecially regarding my presence here. It's really difficult to let go of this stuff sometimes and I feel betrayed, still, but I guess I'm just going to have to find some way to deal with all the other stuff he has lied about, which really goes right to the core. Ixox