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• 09/10/2008 @ 13:29 Hoj said

  

  Hi Roze, thanks, how do i see all my replys!! Am still trying to get used to this site!! He wont see his kids without her coz she lets him see them but then gives him grief and emotional blackmail all the time about them, so our relationship suffers, he wont admit to her that he is with me because she cant take that but it is me he cheated on!!!

• 09/10/2008 @ 14:11 roze said

  

  Replies will appear here as people see your brick. I had not realised that he has not told her he is with you! Nor that you have two older children if i understood your talkabout properly. Quite a complex situation! Seems like honesty is the best policy - and that he tells her he is with you - and that somehow you can find a way to bring his children into your life as i assume yours are in his??????

• 11/10/2008 @ 16:51 Hoj said

  

  Sorry, it is confusing, we have spoken alot about things and he is sure things will get better, I have two older children from my marraige, but non with him as i lost them, so i think i feel bitter about that too.