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Brick created on 25/09/2008 @ 10:24

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Well for now at least - my new job is a bit of a blessing - I don't walk under rainbows and blue birds aren't dancing around me as I sing and skip my way to work - but I just feel happier in myself.

I just enjoy managing people and I have a great bunch of people to manage - bright and with loads of talent and so much potential. And my peers are great to work with - they don't want to be my friends and they don't really care if they like me or I like them - we just get on with the work and they know me well enough that I don't unsettle the group too much by being the new one.

I really didn't know how much I wasn't enjoying my other job - it is so much easier to be in a place which I find I fit in. But strangely they are not my natural group - we just make it work.

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  • 25/09/2008 @ 11:56 cherry said
    cherry

    How wonderful.
    UM, im so pleased for you .
    Sounds as though youve landed on your feet with this new job .. perhaps those rainbows and blue birds are not as far away as you think !!
    Love Cherry xx

  • 25/09/2008 @ 12:35 UMxx said
    UMxx

    Thanks Cheery - just one fairly little change - doesn't take the whole world

    But it makes me think about quite a lot that is happening and how I feel and maybe even how I attribute the feelings to situations and I might be in a mode where I am allocating feelings to situations that are not really related. Maybe I had better work out a more coherent way of explaining this. Just well I got some of this terribly wrong with the benefit of hindsight.

    UM xx

  • 25/09/2008 @ 18:58 blueangel said
    blueangel

    UM, Glad to hear that the new job is working out! xxx

  • 25/09/2008 @ 20:11 roze said
    roze

    That is great UM. I am happy for you. love roze xxx

  • 26/09/2008 @ 01:59 inspire said
    inspire

    I'm so glad things are going well and so glad that your spirits are up.
    Thinking of you ... sending lots of love and many hugs ...
    Inspire xxx

  • 26/09/2008 @ 05:15 harmony said
    harmony

    Hi UM
    That's really good news about you feeling happier. I wouldn't worry about explaining the allocating of feelings to situations - just enjoy them.

    love Harmony

  • 28/09/2008 @ 18:40 summer76 said
    summer76

    Dear um, always so refreshing to read good news on here. I mean to try it more often. So pleased for you. You deserve it.

    I have little doubt that a change of scene for me and finding the right crowd would also do me a world of good but I have explained that one many times.

    Just one thing. Take some credit for how things are. If there is one single thing that can make work great it is a good manager.
    I think in all the years I have only really known one manager who was really worthy of the title. It is almost universally agreed in my organisation that she is the best. Just one simple reason. She puts the people first and formost, knowing that if she does that well, the rest just falls in to place. She does it brilliantly.

    All hail um the people manager.

    Hugs


    summer xx

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