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• 17/09/2008 @ 10:57 ant said

  

  Hi yankeebrit,

  Wish that was an easy question - maybe it is best to wait a while until you are more certain of how it might turn out. But if she knows that you are gay then she might already have an inkling ....

  Are you getting any vibes from her?

  ant

• 17/09/2008 @ 19:39 roze said

  

  My head asks all sorts of rational questions - how long have you known her, does she send out any signals, how would you cope if...............and my heart says.........if you phrase it in the right way .....less statement and more question .....and are prepared for it just to continue to be friendship .......?? Rx

• 17/09/2008 @ 19:45 yankeebrit said

  

  i have known her over 6 months. we get on brilliantly, both flirt up a storm, but that is it. i would never want to lose her as a friend as she is awesome, but at the same time, what if i am missing out on something more?

• 17/09/2008 @ 19:49 roze said

  

  Have you told her that you think she is awesome? Does she know you are gay? Rx

• 17/09/2008 @ 19:52 yankeebrit said

  

  she knows i am gay, and she knows i think she is awesome, she knows how important she is to me as a friend and she knows that she impacts my life in positive ways.

• 17/09/2008 @ 19:56 roze said

  

  Well can you ask her if she has ever considered having a relationship with another woman? It does not have to be a heavy thing. Unless she is involved with someone ....Rx

• 17/09/2008 @ 19:57 yankeebrit said

  

  she is totally gay too

• 17/09/2008 @ 19:59 roze said

  

  well so what are you waiting for?

• 17/09/2008 @ 20:00 yankeebrit said

  

  the fear that if i say it she will be scared off and i will lose a great friend

• 17/09/2008 @ 20:01 roze said

  

  So just say what would you feel about if we took this to another level - or do you like it the way it is? rx

• 17/09/2008 @ 20:03 yankeebrit said

  

  nice, i am ready to go all guns blazing, but the lesser approach sounds good

• 17/09/2008 @ 20:04 yankeebrit said

  

  thank you

• 17/09/2008 @ 20:05 roze said

  

  see how it goes and let me know. Said in the right way you have nothing to lose. Rx

• 18/09/2008 @ 07:29 ant said

  

  Great advice roze, I am glad I caught up with the conversation - good luck with this yankeebrit - be calm with it. Sending you warm wishes,

  ant

• 26/09/2008 @ 21:59 yankeebrit said

  

  i told her, it went well, i am glad i told her, now i want more.

• 29/09/2008 @ 04:39 roze said

  

  Oh that makes me so happy! Does she feel the same about you? Rx

• 29/09/2008 @ 08:57 ant said

  

  That's great yankeebrit - hope this is the beginning of something for you ant :)

• 29/09/2008 @ 11:34 yankeebrit said

  

  she definitley likes me, but there is an on again off again girlfriend floating around who doesn't treat her well. when it is on again i respect that and keep my distance, when it is off again I step in as much as I can

• 30/09/2008 @ 19:40 roze said

  

  I admire your respect and the sureness of your love. She is one lucky girl! Patience can be rewarding. Rx