Wishful thinking

rustysgal

Brick created on 25/04/2008 @ 11:51

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Sometimes the pain of remaining faithful to a spouse that has completely and utterly made an entire mockery of my marriage is too much to bear but it is the respect of the comittment and the family of others that keeps me to my values.

Sometimes I just wonder what it would have been like to grow up when all these values were thrown out the window... grass is always greener

Sometimes the temptation is too great, but I look at my kids or yours and remember what is really important

but I'm getting to the point where I think I'll leave our little social circle and find other interests because it is really getting too hard

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25/04/2008 @ 12:56 UMxx said

Hi Rustysgal,
I guess the fact that we have choices doesn't make it easier though does it? But what is the mockery that he has made of your marriage? Want to talk about it? Maybe you could think about starting up a new Talkabout and hear what others have to say. take care
xxUM
25/04/2008 @ 15:33 zorro said

Hello again!
Wow, from this and your other brick, I am sensing you are approaching a crossroads, perhaps you need to break free, or feel you do. Here to chat through it all with you if you want... Zxx
25/04/2008 @ 17:12 rustysgal said

Wow, I put up these bricks to try and see it in black and white to face it and think about it. Never occured to me that I could talk about it too. I'll have to give it some thought and see if I have the courage to discuss it all.
25/04/2008 @ 17:38 rustysgal said

ok I started a talkabout to talk about it.
11/05/2008 @ 11:57 juanna said

You'd be happier if you left the marriage; you'r spouse will survive & who knows may even want to be set free... Do it otherwise you may as well be in prison..