I have to sell my house because my mum died earlier in the year and my brothers and sisters want their share. I can't afford to buy them out because I have no savings, and the bank won't lend me the money because of all my credit debt. They all have their own homes and families, mum was all I had. Why didn't I save more? My eldest sister says it's all my fault, I was living rent free and should've saved and why should I benefit more than theydo. But I've been caring for her for 10 years,they did't need to pay for nurse care,my admin job has paid the upkeep and repairs.