My spouse betrayed my trust 15 years ago - not with an affair but with finances. She hid our financial issues from me, I assume for all the “right” reasons, but it ended us in bankruptcy court and financially destroyed us – even to this day. It has been 15 years, but I still do not fully trust her – with finances or anything else. If she lied about something so damaging to our family – my gut tells me she would lie about other things as well. Truth has always been a big issue with me and for someone so close to me to betray that trust, I just can’t seem to get past it.