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Brick created on 19/02/2008 @ 03:18

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How long should I wait?

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  • 19/02/2008 @ 13:17 Wolfie said
    Wolfie

    Hi crazylife. Does he or she know you are waiting? Are you waiting for them to return?

    Love W

  • 19/02/2008 @ 15:10 crazylife said
    crazylife

    Yes, the person knows I am waiting. I am tired of being on hold.

  • 19/02/2008 @ 15:12 Wolfie said
    Wolfie

    Have they told you when they are coming? Have they made an promises?

  • 19/02/2008 @ 23:48 crazylife said
    crazylife

    The "here" in the picture is actually "there" where the picture is. Dates keep sorta being made, and then taken away. Never seems to be the right time.

  • 20/02/2008 @ 08:54 Wolfie said
    Wolfie

    From the very little you have said, it sounds like you might not be a priority for him or her at the moment? What else have they got going on?

  • 20/02/2008 @ 15:31 crazylife said
    crazylife

    Yeah, I do believe that either I am a lower priority then his life at this moment, or he is trying to put someone else's feelings before mine. Either way, I am tired of being the one that is "put off" or told to wait. I would rather have the agony spread around, but I know that is selfish.

  • 23/02/2008 @ 16:04 all_american_guy said
    all_american_guy

    Playing devil's advocate here: Is the fact that you are still waiting and still "on hold" all the other person's fault? Could it be that you could and would be with them if not for some of your own actions? I have found in my own life that whe I treat people better, I become a higher priority in their life. Just a thought. :-)

  • 23/02/2008 @ 21:54 crazylife said
    crazylife

    thanks

  • 24/02/2008 @ 21:18 all_american_guy said
    all_american_guy

    you're welcome. hope it helps.

  • 29/05/2008 @ 16:19 babushka said
    babushka

    Hello crazylife... This is really sad... I wouldn't wait a moment longer... get on with life.. At the end of your life you shouldn't be thinking 'i wish I'd waited longer', you should be thinking 'I'm glad I didn't wait for that loser who couldn't make me feel special'. Who knows how long it would take to meet someone who could do that? Could be an hour, could be a year...I am in the 'third age' and I realise that I have to make every day count. Good luck!!xx

  • 29/05/2008 @ 19:19 crazylife said
    crazylife

    Thank you for your comment, things have changed completely since I made this brick, but your advice really helps!

  • 30/05/2008 @ 15:32 djinpcfl said
    djinpcfl

    It's good to know you have realized that things have changed and hopefully have gotten on with your life and are happy and aren't bothering people anymore trying to hang on to what YOU threw away.

  • 30/05/2008 @ 15:38 Wolfie said
    Wolfie

    Hello djinpcfl, that's a little harsh perhaps? Certainly never a chance of bothering people on The Wall. Feelings and emotions do change over time but it doesn't make the ones that we had any less legitimate. We may regret our actions, we may not, but it's good to talk about it. Wx

  • 30/05/2008 @ 15:59 crazylife said
    crazylife

    I threw away nothing, DJ. I was promised many things and slowly they were all taken away. My needs were, at best, third or fourth priority. To know that expressing my feelings and my needs were "bothering" those affected really shows how much I was cared for and loved. I appreciate your comments, however. Also, thanks Wolfie, for your support.

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