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• 13/12/2007 @ 08:22 SimonSays said

  

  sometimes the best relationships take a bit of work, if only in the early stages. Is this one worth the fight? And is the lack of trust about her past, or about your keeping a part of yourself from her?

• 13/12/2007 @ 15:20 roze said

  

  oh savmut is this the girl that has issues around you sharing private information with others. Sometimes people push you a very long way away to see if you will stay. You don't need the idiots guide - perhaps you need to be able to open a conversation with her where you can say what you are really feeling in a way that will not threaten her. Maybe wrap her in your arms - as the safest place - and ask her if it feels as safe to her - as it does when she wraps her arms around you. I sense you want this one to work out?

• 13/12/2007 @ 15:42 savmut said

  

  Yeah this is the girl with the trust issues. Yes I want to work this out, and most of it is my fault for her trust issues, I accept that, but she keeps pushing, and telling me I am not showing her that she comes first.

  I don't think the wrapping her in my arms thing will work. She doesn't want me touching her, but I may be able to get her to hold my hand and talk to me. I am slowly trying to get through to her so we can work this out.