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02/07/2008 @ 17:37 tony147147 said:

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hi i have just joined this site to chat bout things,im such a bad person,have done some very bad things to my wife,she says she forgives me but i cannot forgive myself.i hate myself so much an pray each night that i never wake up but of corse i do!!i want to love my wife so much,but i cannot and ive destroyed her,i feel her pain,it cuts me like a knife,i deserve all that i get in life and what it throws at me...i deserve and want no less!
02/07/2008 @ 17:51 Wolfie said:

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Hello tony and welcome to Big White Wall - you have come to the right place to talk about the things that are going on for you at the moment.

Tell us about your wife - how long have you guys been married? There is no rush, just take your time.

Wx
02/07/2008 @ 17:57 harmony said:

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Hi Tony

Feeling like you're feeling, it's good you found this site then and can see for yourself that people her are good listeners and offer each other support. Try us!

xH
02/07/2008 @ 18:40 roze said:

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Hello Tony, Welcome. Would you like to share some more about what has been going on? We are all here to listen and support and do not make judgements. Everyone here has had painful life experiences and it really does help to share them. Take care, roze
02/07/2008 @ 20:29 Swon said:

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Hi Tony and welcome.
I don't think anyone on here has lead a totaly blameless life, I know I haven't and I've hurt my wife a lot, emotionaly, but you can move on mate especially if she has forgiven you.
Take your time and tell us a bit about what's been happening.

Take care.
02/07/2008 @ 21:35 UMxx said:

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Hello Tony,
I'm glad you made it to the Wall - it's a good place to chat about things :)

I guess you could see we all do a fair bit of chatting here as you can see from the length of the talkabout (TA) list!.

I'm sorry that you are feeling bad within yourself - please don't give up on yourself - lots of us have been there and remember those awful feelings. We will encourage you to talk a bit about what's happened to make you feel so low. Your wife has forgiven you but you can't forgive yourself? Sounds like you wife loves you an awful lot. Lucky you:) Whatever it is we have a bit of a line on the Wall that we don't want to judge others. So I just want to add that we want this to be a safe space for you

We are here and listening when you need
UM xx
02/07/2008 @ 22:01 harmony said:

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Hi Tony

Thanks for PM.

When you're ready...one word at a time. As you have read in this TA , people are already there for you.
xH
03/07/2008 @ 10:38 flygurl said:

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Is this all to do with what you have done to your wife or is it that you don't like who you are? Or perhaps both?
03/07/2008 @ 19:17 roze said:

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Hi tony
Just wondering how you are doing today? Thinking of you, roze
04/07/2008 @ 13:19 sleepysky said:

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Dear Tony
I do hope that you are not feeling reluctant to say any more. I found it hard to express myself at first here but i have found it extremely useful. I do hope that you are able to let everyone know how you are. Best wishes.
04/07/2008 @ 18:25 Jomo said:

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Tony - your wife has forgiven you, you say. You have a wonderful basic for a good relationship there - you love her, and you are together.
Maybe seek some professional help to deal with the feelings that you are having? Are you afraid that you will hurt her again? There is a lot of help out there for you if you reach out for it.
This is something that you can work on together, to build a future together. Don't lose heart now - you have not lost her, so keep on trying and talking to her.
Jo
07/07/2008 @ 20:12 sleepysky said:

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Dear Tony
I wrote to you a few days ago and I am rather concerned that you have still not replied to this conversatoin. I very much hope that you are in good health. Best wishes.

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