good question Latchmere - I have a problem with him ogling women, he'll drift off mid conversation if some stunner walks by, but he's never given me any cause to think he's cheated before. He's been so attentive since friday, he even brought me out for lunch yesterday and today he stopped by my desk, like three times already. Part of me thinks he's feeling guilty about something and now I'm wondering about rocking the boat. I could ask my colleagues out straight but I'mafraid of the answer, I really am.

i'm very sorry. maybe when you should first talk to your other co-workers and see what they say. if they tell you the bad stuff, talk to your boyfriend. if he's a good boyfriend, he'll tell you the truth.
try not to be too worried, maybe it's something else.
i hope it works out :]

It seems like you did the right thing chocolatecake.  I think cheating is a symptom of something else that has gone wrong in a relationship....if you were satisfied why go else-where? So, obviously from what you said, there were other issues that couldn't be resolved, and walking away probably did you both good.  The fact you couldn't trust him also indicates that you knew it wasn't really right.  I hope you find someone that you can trust, and that you feel happy with.  Keep putting one foot in front of the other and I'm sure you will get there!! xx