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Ive got no money to live on

  • 17/10/2007 @ 07:53 x1y2z3 said:
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    i don't know if things can get much worse.  my boyfriend left me a few weeks back but to make matters worse the flat was under his name and i have to get out.  the landlord came and told me last night adn this morning i have worken up at my wits end.  i don't know what to do?  where can i go? i haven't got the morney for a deposit on another one tho i have been keeping up with the rent on this one. 
  • 17/10/2007 @ 15:49 Anonymous said:
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    Are you owed a deposit on the one you're in? If your boyfriend has buggered off, will the landlord give you the money instead? I'd try citizen's advice if I were you.
  • 18/10/2007 @ 19:48 Wolfie said:
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    Hi x1y2z3, how do you feel about talking things through with your ex-boyfriend?  perhaps use a mutual friend as a go between to start with?  After all, you said that he is the father or your children and so he should be liable to contribute child support.  that might be the first step and then you will need to perhaps go and speak to your local council to see what services they have that you could take advantage of?  will post again if I think of anything else. 
  • 18/10/2007 @ 22:04 roze said:
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    Hey - what a rough time. How are you feeling about your boyfriend moving out? Was that his choice - or yours? You have experienced one of the most traumatic situations - the break up of a relationship -and now you face one of the other biggest - losign your home. no wonder you are feeling really stressed. What are your options? Could you get someone to move in and share the place and the rent and convince the landlord that you are a good tenant? Can you go and stay with a friend for a while - just to give yourself some breathing space? See if you can breathe deeply and see if you can see some alternatives. Happy to help you think through some ways forward. Take care.

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